It’s Complicated…

                 Now-a-days, the most popular answer that we get, to many questions is “it’s complicated”. Life of today’s generation has  turned so tangled. Facebook has entered even this famous phrase into an option for relationship status.Maximum people on facebook use this status.

                 There are many reasons behind it. Relation with partner, is not  just the only thing that has become complicated. Career, friendship, family relations , basically everything has become complicated.

                   There is only one solution out of it- self control. Today’s lifestyle has become super fast. Our basic tradition follows rules and regulations. We bend them for convenience, which was the need. But now we have completely broken them. Rules create self-control. Addiction, uncontrolled anger, getting carried away with moments in the end results only in mistakes and guilt. It leads to confusion and we end up in a situation where we just don’t know- What do we actually want?

                 The basic nature of humans is to defend themselves. In this state of confusion we try to defend ourselves and create a definition in which we fit in as a good person with “ifs and buts”. The only way out of this confusion is to accept our mistakes. For that firstly we need to calm down and think about every aspect and invoke realization and then learn to seek self-control. It is very difficult. But it is what we need. It is the only way out of the dark complicated life.

                 It does not matter what people think about you. What matters is the truth. Whatever you have faced you can turn it right but for that you need to come out of that dark and rise in your own eyes. No-one is perfect. Everyone carries out mistakes. Following the lesson out of it matters. Once you know what you actually want, other things upset you less. Life will turn simpler, just the way you want after some efforts. Give it a try. Hope to have a happy simple life. Anu