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The internet is a great place to fall in love, or at least to meet the person that you will fall in love with. There are so many different ways to meet people online, compared with just a few years ago that it beggars belief. Sites like Twitter, Match.com, Bebo, My Space, Friends Reunited and countless others have sprung up to form online communities and forums. And where ever people meet there is a hint of love in the air.

With so many opportunities to meet new people online, love is nothing more than a natural consequence. People will fall in love where ever people meet and chat, and the internet is no different. But what makes the internet different is that the lovers that meet and get to know each other have not physically met before. This means that at some point there needs to be an actual first meeting of two strangers. In this day and age it is important to take care and reasonable precautions prior to and for this meeting. What are these precautions? How can you make meeting someone from the internet ‘safe’.

Love is blind, or at least so they say. But you should not allow love to blind you from the need to have some basic safety measures in place before you run off and meet the online love of your life.

Love online safety tip number 1:

Don’t use your real name. Certainly don’t use your full name. You would be surprised what you can find out about someone just from their name and information that comes up in conversation. Whilst most people are healthy, normal and sane, there is nothing to safe guard you from chatting to someone who will turn out not to be entirely as mentioned. It causes no harm to use a fake name, this way your identity is protected and your safety increased. You can always tell the person after you meet your real name, if they are decent then they will understand.

Love online safety tip number 2:

Don’t give out any personal information. It might seem innocent enough, but if you tell someone your age and when your birthday is, then it doesn’t take a genius to put together your date of birth. This (along with your real name) is almost all the security needed for security for call centers for banks and phone companies etc. Don’t under estimate the importance of these seemingly harmless details. You can always use a fake date of birth for conversations with people that you have never met before. Once you have met and fallen in love with your online friend then you can set them straight.

Love online safety tip number 3:

When you meet the person you hope to fall in love with, be sure to do so in a public place. Bars or restaurants are good places to go to. This gives you the safety of meeting with other people present. Very little can happen to compromise your personal safety in a crowded restaurant. It would not be a good idea to go to a persons home or in a car with them until you had gotten to know them in real life, as well as online.

Love online safety tip number 4:

When you arrange to meet the person from the internet, make sure you tell a friend. Make it known where you will be going and when you will return. Arrange a time when you will call to check in with that person so that they know that you are safe.

The internet is a great place to meet people and to fall in love. But the internet brings with it a whole new set of safety measures that need to be followed. There is, in reality, little difference in terms of personal safety from meeting someone online as to meeting in a bar or club. The different ways of meeting simply have different sets of safety measures to be followed.  Think about it – in a bar you should never accept a ride home from a stranger, you would never leave your drink unattended etc. Well meeting someone from the internet has different rules. It doesn’t make it any safer or any more dangerous, just different.

The most important thing is that you remain safe. Love will come and love will go, but you only have one life, so keep it safe. If you are in any doubt about your safety – call off the meeting. That being said, the internet is a great place to fall in love. Go and enjoy finding online love, safely.